Writing in the National Journal Jonathan Rauch says homosexual relationships benefit society. As an example he gives the three decades long relationship his cousin Bill Meezan has had with his partner. And the harrowing experience they went through when Bill was hospitalized.
If gay couples can’t be allowed to marry, what should they be able to do? Asked this question, cultural conservatives say, in the words of Tom Lehrer’s song about the German rocket scientist Wernher von Braun, “That’s not my department.” Effectively, conservatives are saying that what Mike and Bill do for each other has no significance outside their own bedroom.
If cultural conservatism continues to treat same-sex couples as outside the social covenant, the currents of history will flow right around it.
But what happened in that hospital in Philadelphia for those six weeks was not just Mike and Bill’s business, a fact that is self-evident to any reasonable human being who hears the story. “Mike was making a medical decision at least once a day that would have serious consequences,” Bill told me. Who but a life partner would or could have done that? Who but a life partner will drop everything to provide constant care? Bill’s mother told me that if not for Mike, her son would have died. Faced with this reality, what kind of person, morally, simply turns away and offers silence?
Not the sort of person who populates the United States of America. If Republicans wonder why they find themselves culturally marginalized, particularly by younger Americans, they might consider the fact that when the party looks at couples like Mike and Bill it sees, in effect, nothing.
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